If you are in a relationship or want to find someone to have a good relationship with just remember a good relationship starts with love. Trying to keep a good relationship with out love will not be a lasting one.
If you have a partnership and have not love, it will not last long. When two people live together for a long time without love you will start to get on their mates nerves. It is hard to be with someone for any length of time and not get into arguments and stay mad at each other.
When you have love it makes things better and helps to get through the tough times. I am not saying you will not have arguments, but with love you will find it easier to makeup and get back to a good life.
Even with love it is hard to stay happy all the time. If you do have the love and do not have the attitude of giving more than you receive you will find you have some problems. Two people that care about each other and want to give to their mate more than they get will find a better life and will be happier.
I am not saying you need to always give in and let your mate have their way. It is just a life of give and take and if one gives all the time and the other always takes it will not be a good relationship.
I have heard the saying give what you want to receive and that is good if you are with someone that is giving and caring, but I have been relationships that no matter how much you give in they always take. If both parties are willing to think of their partner more than they do of themselves it will be a good relationship.
By giving what you want to get back covers a lot of things. If you try to look your best for your love they will find it makes them feel better about your lives together. The little things are very important also like helping each other with the everyday chores around the house. If you have special times to go out to eat, to a movie or things that make you partner happy it makes things so much better.
People that split up and then want to be back with their mate are very unhappy and find getting back together is very hard. Staying with each other is easier than trying to repair your relationship and make up for the things you lost in a broken partnership.
There is some good advice on getting back together and can help a couple that is happy, but think the grass is greener on the other side of the fence.
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