Monday, April 26, 2010

Sex Mistakes - 5 Things Girls Should Never Do in Bed






I know that the common myth about men is that nothing affects them while they are in bed with a woman but while that may be mostly true there are some things that will make him wonder what the heck is going on.

Avoid these 5 sex mistakes when in bed with a guy.

1. Calling him by another guys name.

He wants to know that it's him turning you on and that it's not Steve or John, who he probably knows, doing all the dirty work.

2. Acting like the girls in porno's do.

Yes it's fun to watch a porn movie and see the girls screaming and over exaggerating the whole thing but in bed it's a different story. If you start quoting some cheesy lines from a movie you watched then he's going to wonder if you are actually enjoying the experience or just trying to make him think you are enjoying it.

3. Nothing.

It can be easy to get caught up in the whole experience and lay back motionless to enjoy what is being done to you but when you lay there doing nothing it sends a message that you are not really into it. Unless you are tied up and immobile than you should be moving around a little bit and making some sort of noise to let him know that you are digging what he's doing.

4. Talk about your day - or anything other than sex.

Sounds silly right? Then why do we do it? Because our mind is wandering all over the place and we want to express what we are thinking about. It's in our nature. But we need to live in the moment when we are having sex because we should be getting the most enjoyment we can out of it. So if your mind wanders to the conversation you had earlier then gently nudge it back to focusing on what's going on in the moment. You'll have a better time and he'll feel better knowing you are totally involved.

5. Trying to make our body look perfect.

Striking a pose in bed while you are on top of him to make yourself look sexy or making sure that your back is arched just perfect to show off your best look is a waste of time. You're having sex! Loosen up and enjoy it. He has seen your body when you are not in that perfect pose and he obviously is liking it because you are in bed together so just trust that your body is turning him on and enjoy the sex.

Avoid these common mistakes and you'll find a new heightened pleasure in sex that you never knew existed.

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