Lead Him Into Love - Secrets to Help Your Man Fall in Love With You

Have you ever wondered how a woman can lead a man into love? Is there a point in your relationship where you do almost all the work to keep it going, while he is not doing anything at all? Have you felt that too much time and effort was already spent in this relationship but you are not getting the results you wanted? Do not give up yet. Men are not easy to handle but if you know the secrets, you can gently lead him into love. Continue to read on to learn how to help your man fall in love with you.

Old school works

Things were a lot easier for men decades ago. There were no gray areas when looking for that ideal woman. Just look for traits of a good housewife and they go for that type. There are just a few things to worry about. They ask the ladies out on dates because for them, it will never work the other way around. Men chase women and they were experts about it because they set the rules. They would not like it when women pursue them. The relationship should move at the pace they choose. No pressure about it.

Nowadays, women were given power. Do not get it wrong because this is a good thing, but these days, men feel that he is not in control of a relationship because women works faster mentally and emotionally. Women want to speed up the commitment process. The moment she feels that this relationship needs to move up another level, she expects her man to feel the same way about it, so she pushes him to commit. Men at the other hand, does not want to be pushed too fast or too far because he does not want to be forced into something he is not even sure of yet.

Here are the secrets that can help a man fall in love with you.

Put the old school rules in mind and take notice that they had a lot of advantages for they really worked for men then. Use that understanding to gently lead him into love.

1. Start with your looks. Look your best when starting a relationship. He will definitely notice you when you attract his attention.

2. Let him arrange your dates. When it comes to dating, let him be the one to lead. Looking attractive will draw his desire to ask you out.

3. Do not come on too strong at first. Keep it fun and light so he will feel at ease with your company.

4. Let him set the pace of the relationship. It may be slower than yours but he will feel comfortable if he feels he is the one in control.

5. Do not make him feel pressured or insecure. Make it a secure and safe environment for him. He is more likely to open up his emotions when he is not compelled into it.

6. Lastly, be patient. If you feel you wanted to make this relationship work with him, then he is worth waiting for. Give him the luxury of time to find out how he feels about you without pushing him into it.

These secrets may not be acceptable to you, if you are used to being in control and if you are a strong woman. What you are really trying to do here is not to surrender to a man's psychological needs but rather to get the better of it. So in essence, you are still in control and by this, you can gently lead him into love.